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Duke Ellington: Daddy Duke and The Ladies - by George Spink
"A Date with the Duke" - June 9, 1945

(This review appeared in the Sunday Show section of The Chicago Sun-Times on April 23, 1978.)

Duke Ellington in Person: An Intimate Memoir
By Mercer Ellington with Stanley Dance. Houghton Mifflin.

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Duke Ellington’s private life might be none of our business, but our curiosity about him is insatiable. It seems that the more we know about a great artist, the better we understand why we ordinary folk are different.

Now we can see the Duke through the eyes of his only child, Mercer, with a little help from Stanley Dance, Duke’s friend and confidant for some four decades. Dance undoubtedly helped Mercer reconstruct portions of Duke’s career, but this is really Mercer’s book because what leaps off almost every page is his endless devotion to his father.

Born March 11, 1919, when Duke was only 20, Mercer continues to live in his father’s shadow. He always will. An old proverb tells us that "happy is the child whose father goes to the devil." Duke went the other route. Mercer’s life hasn’t been easy, but his own sharp intelligence and considerable musical talent, a fine sense of humor, and a deep and honest admiration for his father have enabled him to prevail.

He writes about Duke with a mature blend of candor and discretion. "Duke Ellington would make certain he remained on top regardless of whom he knocked down," Mercer reveals, "including me." Moving in the strictly adult world of jazz during the 1920's and 1930's left Duke with little time to be with his son. "I was his child; I was born; I would be taken care of, clothed and fed; I would grow up to be, probably, a musician; and I would talk to him. But in 1943, when he saw me in uniform, he realized that I might not be in existence much longer."

Duke worried as much as any parent during the war. A few years earlier, Duke had not given Mercer enough money for music lessons. But when Mercer was playing with Sy Oliver’s band in the Army, Duke made sure they had plenty of good arrangements and helped out in other ways. Mercer was on his own again after the war. He struggled with his own orchestra; Duke didn’t like the idea of two Ellington bands. Later he encouraged Mercer to become a disk jockey in New York—hosting a Duke Ellington show.

In 1964, Duke asked him to play trumpet and be road manager of the band, mainly so Mercer could straighten out the band’s terrible finances, perhaps to be near each other during Duke’s last years, and maybe to groom Mercer to lead the band someday. At last, father and son became friends.

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Women loved Duke Ellington, but only five influenced him. Mercer details Duke’s relationships with Mercer’s mother (whom Duke left in 1930 but never divorced), an actress, a dancer, a showgirl, and a chanteuse. Except for Duke’s own mother and sister, whom Duke cherished, Mercer feels his father "had a basic contempt for women. He spent so much time celebrating and charming them, but basically he hated them."

Mercer might be saying more about his own reaction to Duke’s romantic involvements than about Duke’s feelings, because his assessment is so strongly contradicted by Duke’s songs and demeanor. The late jazz critic Ralph Gleason once wrote, "Duke’s music was as much about love and about ladles as it was about black culture." Gleason related how Duke would describe a Satin Doll as one who "was just as pretty inside as outside" and a Passion Flower as one "better enjoyed than discussed." Duke left Warm Valley to our imagination. Sophisticated Lady, Mercer tells us, refers to his own mother, to "her depressed state of mind and consequent drinking after their breakup."

At the beginning of his memoir, Mercer quotes his best friend, Bob Udkoff: "Hate is such a luxurious emotion, it can only be spent on one we love deeply." That sums up Mercer’s feelings about his father—and perhaps Duke’s toward women.

Ellington buffs will savor Mercer’s (and Dance’s) anecdotes about all of the famous instrumentalists who played with Duke’s band. A number of tales about tenor saxophonist Paul Gonsalves illustrates Duke’s respect for his sidemen. Gonsalves could play brilliantly when he was straight (and often when he wasn’t), but eventually his addiction to alcohol and drugs made him unreliable. Mercer made sure the band got six reed players instead of the usual five in case Gonsalves got lost.

Shortly before Duke died, Gonsalves, dressed in his banker’s best, visited Duke in the hospital. "Who is that?" Duke kidded. A few weeks later Gonsalves died in London. The news shattered Duke, who only had a little while left himself.

Four years have elapsed since Duke’s death on May 24, 1974. Mercer now leads the Duke Ellington Orchestra. His son, Edward Kennedy Ellington II, plays guitar with it. It is an excellent band in its own right, playing many Ellington compositions and arrangements. But it is Mercer’s band, not Duke’s.

And this is Mercer’s book, not Duke’s. In its own way, this book offers the definitive Duke Ellington story. Let’s hope Hollywood doesn’t touch it.

But the real Duke Ellington story is in his music. Recordings are now widely available of Duke’s music from his early years at the Cotton Club to his last recorded concert at Eastbourne. If you want to know Duke Ellington, all you have to do is listen.

Postscript: Mercer Ellington died on Feb. 8, 1996.

George Spink
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